It is my sad duty to tell you of the death of David Jarvis. David was a long time attendee of the priory. He came on Wednesday nights and also was a regular presence at the outside retreats. I hadn’t seen him since the spring because every summer he would head off on this narrow boat along the canals. I was made aware that he was in the Sue Ryder Hospice near Prospect park. I made two visits with Jan who kindly gave me a lift each time. He quickly got worse by the time of the second visit which was a day before he died on Friday morning. His family said he died in his sleep. We will be holding a memorial for David at 2pm on Friday 8th December here at the priory. David seemed a very private and quiet man but his contributions and depth of experience always added to the occassion.
A prompt about the New Year Retreat this year. From the 29th until the 1st the priory will be running the regular New Year Retreat which includes the Ceremony on New Years eve. If you would like to come to all or some of it please let me know. I appreciate it is more difficult for some of you to partake in a residential type retreat which includes staying over, but for those of you wishing to do that then it is still possible.The New Years eve ceremony consists of the usual fanning of the Scripture of Great Wisdom, the chanting of the Sambo Kojin and the drinking of juice. If you wish to bring in the New Year and reflect upon the past year amongst the sangha then this is an excellent opportunity. If you are new to this practice and wish to come but don’t quite know what it is about then don’t hestiate to contact me.
I thought I would write a little bit about the trip to the States I made in September. The three week visit was to attend the OBC Rules conclave meeting at Shasta Abbey. A group of five monks, four from Throssel and myself flew from Heathrow to Portland, Oregon on a direct ten and a half hour flight. Three then went to Eugene priory and myself and Rev. Master Berwyn stayed at Portland priory for a few days with Rev. Leon the prior. Rev. Master Koten and Rev. Master Aurelian from Canada joined us aswell as Rev. Master Hugh for the long drive down to Shasta, picking up Rev. Wilfrid, Rev. Jishin and Rev. Elinore on the way.
We all arrived at Shasta in good shape and soon settled, in preparation for the conclave. It was good to meet up with old friends aswell as be greeted by monks I had not met before. I didn’t realise how much Mount Shasta dominated the landscape. It is much closer than I had thought and seems to tower over the Abbey. The atmosphere is extremely dry and because the Abbey is at four thousand feet it has it’s effect on the body. I was quite woozy for some of the time and couldn’t do as much physically as I had hoped.
The conclave is now held every six years and alternates between the UK and The States.This is when we as an Order ratify the rules that have been privisionally been in place between conclaves. We needed to look at thirty rules, many of which were fairly straight forward and were just a matter of changing titles and names to bring the rules up to date. Nevertheless great care is taken over the wording so that they read properly and can be enforced (if necessary) without misunderstanding their meaning. Many of the rules were to do with priories. In the rules priories became temples and priors chief priests. This is bring all the temples, including Abbeys, in line with the rule. Nevertheless priories are still priories and priors are still priors. During the course of the conclave there was a chance for a couple of outings. I went a on a local trip on the first one but unfortunately came down with a heavy cold during the second week of the conclave and so missed out on another chance. To close the conclave we held a memorial ceremony for Rev. Master Jiyu. It was held outside at the stupa (pictured), and we chanted scriptures and circumambulated it three times. Rev. Master Haryo was celebrant as he was for morning service during the conclave. We were also joine during the conclave by three lay ministers, two from the Shasta congregation and Chris Hughes from the Telford congregation. They provided much imput to the meetings, and helped to show how we as an Order function as a totality.
The filght back was smooth and uneventful and only took a couple of hours from landing to opening the priory front door. The expected jet lag never happened and I was soon back into things. Thank you to all who helped keep the priory open during my absence, I realy appereciate it.
I was very pleased and happy to be the celebrant for the wedding of Holly Baker & Jeremy Petherbridge, who are both regular congregation members. It was an intimate and relaxed occassion in which the couple were able to show and share their commitment to living together in a way that will express outwardly a bond which have has love, compassion and wisdom at it’s core.The wedding was attended by Holly’s two daughters Imogen (left) and Freya (right) and friends Tony and Atia. Many thanks to Barney for precenting. In the top picture the couple are holding the wedding candle, which they light together, and take away with them.
Congratulations to them and wish them both a happy and contented life together.
On the evening of Friday November 3rd the priory will be hosting a farewell evening so that the sangha can say goodbye to Irene Mueller – Harvey. Irene is someone many of you will know. A Lay Minister of the Order who has supported the priory and the priors here for twenty years.
If you would like to come along please let me know by email or phone, it would be helpful to know numbers. The evening will consist of a regular group evening with meditation and evening service. During the sitting you are invited to share a piece of teaching or scripture etc. that means something to you and to read it out. This is only if you wish of course. Afterwards we will say goodbye with refreshments. I hope you can make it.
Just to remind you all about the Alton retreat October 27th – 29th. There are a few places left and we can also guarantee you a single room, so no need to share. Alison will be letting the Brothers know numbers after the 16th.
Wasim and Jafrina hosted this sangha social at their house in Bracknell. A wonderful meal and good company made it an excellent way to see out the summer. These socials are an excellent way to come together as a sangha outside of the Priory. Thank you to everyone for making it a success.Off to Shasta Abbey via Portland Priory tomorrow. See you all when I get back on Oct 3rd.
The Introductory evening for November will be held on Tuesday 31st October.
From November 3rd I would like to introduce a new feature to the calender. This being afternoon group meetings on Fridays to run alongside the already existing evening meeting. I hope this will help those of you who find it difficult to attend in the evenings, especially during the dark winter months. They will run from 2pm to 4pm.